Ok since my birth i've been a girl and @ twenty somin(we dont all really need 2 know my age now do we? lol) i think i know what girls want. so 4 all u guys that are clueless open ur eyes and read but dont just read.. try it.. who know ur relationship cld blossom.. if it doest.. i'll be glad if not well...lets just say it wldnt ave worked out anyway...so on to it
what a girls wants...
A girls most utmost desire is to me loved. this is actually the utmost desire of all being.
Loving a girl is not just telling her "I love u" no, cos not, anybody can say dt. If u love her show it dammit!
how u say? simple... take note of wot she loves 2 do, her interests, i need her aspiration e.t.c Let her know ur interested in it cos she is.. it doesnt mean ur whipped tho ur friends will probably tell u so but shld u be listening 2 thos friends i mean they are single arent they?
Secondly just as a man desire respect so does a girl. She aint a maid,just a sex partner, or ur mum...she can be all those things 4 u sure but thats 4 her to choose to. to be frank..if u love her and she knows it she wont hesitate to be all these things actually. cos she knows u love her by ur showing it and she wants to show she loves u back too. No matter wot she is ur equal and shld be treated as such
Thirdly ooo we like gifts. it doesnt ace 2 be expensive just totful trust me if a girl is mor concerend by d cost she's vain and u shld get rid of her(sori girls but i gotta be real)
No 4. Honestly. come on no1 loves to be lied 2 why wld u thikn dt she does? Most guys are of the impression dt girls love being lied 2.. but dont u think ur feeding them they wrong thing just so they cld fall 4 u? And when u break their heart ur all like "well, i had 2 do wot i had 2 do" aint dt a tad selfish?
Fifth: faithfulness... hey dis doesnt mean ur less of a man.. but u know if u truly love a girl u'd be faithful dont give me dt ur a man crap it doesnt fly...we are not saying u cant check out other chics come we check out guys too.. we r humans but u dont see us chasing them around 4 a quicky now do u?
and last but not the least: communicate.. u guys all know dt girls love 2 talk so if u know dis y do u keep compliang? we cant help it.. we are natural sharers. we love to share especially wit out man so if u cant take the sharing better be outta there man cos after we share we expect u 2 do d same 2.. really wot so hard in telling ur girl bout ur day?
This is the bacis of what a girl want s boy trust me if u can get this rite... ur girl will never want to leave unless she doesnt love u and if she doesnt u shld bother wit this cos it just aint gonna work mate sori...lol
Friday, January 18, 2008
Thursday, January 10, 2008
Boys and girls
Rite.. been meaning to do this but i've been lazy
my friend and fellow blogger finally got me off my lazy but or rather settled me into it so i can finally write this down...
Boys..
this post wont ask wot guys use are, o no ,im sure God made them for a reason, even though no one on earth seem to know what the *bleep* that is ,but as sure as God doesn't make any mistake they have their reason for being.
That granted their attitude and behavior is a another matter to be dealt with..
Guys are always like they are who they are but honestly is it really how you were made or how you were brought up? what you were made to believe by your parent(especially your mum yes you know its the truth if not for her you wouldn't be so pompous and egocentric).
Guys have been brought up to believe they are Gods gift to the world come on really do you still think you are?
Why would you think that? After all thats said and done @ the end of the day you'll run into the arms of a woman either you mum or a gf/wife but still a woman like babies you all are'
invalids.
i read a magazine recently and it claims most of what a guy wants is just to have sex and eat but im of the impression its just a cover up for how attached they can really get...
if its all about sex why dont you all just pay hookers instead of having a gf or wife that you have to spend a lot more money on? Y'all know it'll be a lot cheaper..
And all this sowing of wilds oats drifting from girl to girl whats the point of it? isnt it egotism? a fear of being trapped? And the none cooking bit. Refuse to learn to cook why? cause its a woman job. who the *bleep* said that? Where was it written?
God created us to HELP, that is to assist not take the burnt of everything!
Things are changing really fast guys and if you dont want to become obsolete..
and thats quite possible you know.The bulk of your value is in your sperm and considering each release over a million @ a go and sperm banks are getting more popular and accepted you all better start facing the truth and recognise.
You might call me femnist but i think myself more of a realist and Boy this is the reality of things.
Girls...
I'm sick and tired of all you all felling weak and feeble! For crying out loud y'all are some much better than that... most of us were brought up to think the man is all powerful and mighty but its a 50/50 thing and if you cant see that now im so sorry for you..
Please please please dont make yourself a doormat for some boy just cos he said he loves you.. they say they dont always mean it. Ok fine you love him and he says he loves you but come not dt does not give him the rite 2 treat you like crap! Chic that aint love!
Get off your butt girl and stop waiting for him to buy you this and buy you that... in his mind he'll be think its his right 2 get what he wants and do what he wants with you... dt wot u want honey? really?
And yes you can be by yourself and be happy! true we all need some1 but come on that doesn't mean yoi'll die without some1! thats no reason to go drinking izol or dettol(o yes i know a few who did.. sad innit?) but seriously a lot of us need to build self confidence!
weo so lack it and that what the boys use to play us! if you have a large dozage of self confidence nobody can tell you BS.
conclucion
i still intend to write more on both boys and girls and the male- female interaction.. all i ask of you readers is be real as your leaving a comment. be real, factual and honest...
my friend and fellow blogger finally got me off my lazy but or rather settled me into it so i can finally write this down...
Boys..
this post wont ask wot guys use are, o no ,im sure God made them for a reason, even though no one on earth seem to know what the *bleep* that is ,but as sure as God doesn't make any mistake they have their reason for being.
That granted their attitude and behavior is a another matter to be dealt with..
Guys are always like they are who they are but honestly is it really how you were made or how you were brought up? what you were made to believe by your parent(especially your mum yes you know its the truth if not for her you wouldn't be so pompous and egocentric).
Guys have been brought up to believe they are Gods gift to the world come on really do you still think you are?
Why would you think that? After all thats said and done @ the end of the day you'll run into the arms of a woman either you mum or a gf/wife but still a woman like babies you all are'
invalids.
i read a magazine recently and it claims most of what a guy wants is just to have sex and eat but im of the impression its just a cover up for how attached they can really get...
if its all about sex why dont you all just pay hookers instead of having a gf or wife that you have to spend a lot more money on? Y'all know it'll be a lot cheaper..
And all this sowing of wilds oats drifting from girl to girl whats the point of it? isnt it egotism? a fear of being trapped? And the none cooking bit. Refuse to learn to cook why? cause its a woman job. who the *bleep* said that? Where was it written?
God created us to HELP, that is to assist not take the burnt of everything!
Things are changing really fast guys and if you dont want to become obsolete..
and thats quite possible you know.The bulk of your value is in your sperm and considering each release over a million @ a go and sperm banks are getting more popular and accepted you all better start facing the truth and recognise.
You might call me femnist but i think myself more of a realist and Boy this is the reality of things.
Girls...
I'm sick and tired of all you all felling weak and feeble! For crying out loud y'all are some much better than that... most of us were brought up to think the man is all powerful and mighty but its a 50/50 thing and if you cant see that now im so sorry for you..
Please please please dont make yourself a doormat for some boy just cos he said he loves you.. they say they dont always mean it. Ok fine you love him and he says he loves you but come not dt does not give him the rite 2 treat you like crap! Chic that aint love!
Get off your butt girl and stop waiting for him to buy you this and buy you that... in his mind he'll be think its his right 2 get what he wants and do what he wants with you... dt wot u want honey? really?
And yes you can be by yourself and be happy! true we all need some1 but come on that doesn't mean yoi'll die without some1! thats no reason to go drinking izol or dettol(o yes i know a few who did.. sad innit?) but seriously a lot of us need to build self confidence!
weo so lack it and that what the boys use to play us! if you have a large dozage of self confidence nobody can tell you BS.
conclucion
i still intend to write more on both boys and girls and the male- female interaction.. all i ask of you readers is be real as your leaving a comment. be real, factual and honest...
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