Friday, November 30, 2007

A Choice, a dream, a life.

During my NYSC i share a place with 1 of my male posse. it was fun. we had a lot of trips. but we also had a lot of talk. The 1 that most fascinate me is the fact that love is a choice.
That is everyone can and does chooses to love someone unconditionally.
One might assume that love is that warmy feeling inside yoyu get when you here his/her voice, or the was your heart trip n works overtime when you see him/her but the fact is there was a time you didnt know this person or even if you did he/she didnt mean ass much to you as they did then. whay happened u say?
wellit simple. You decided to block/overlook/accept all his/her and love the person cause you belive that he/she is the one for you. and God knows no one in the world can make you see other wise.
Also.. the factthat such a person can mean so much to you is rather terrifying. cause the said person has the power to make or break you for the duration of the relationship. Funny yeah?
Ah God wasnt kidding he he said it isnt good for a maan to be alone. cause seriously we all need somebody. we all crave a special spme1 in our lives to have and to hold to share life with. to make a family with to share dreams with. if we didnt have such a person in our life i'd like to know what the point is? Whats the point. off getting a job?, getting a degree, earning money, buying a new car, travelling the world. if theres no1 to share it with its just a waste isnt it/

5 comments:

Anonymous said...

pretty cool post!!

Zahratique said...

Some people don't believe it, but i also think love is a choice. We choose to fall in love. Interests are inevitable but love is worked on. Nice Post Busola. Life is indeed meaningless w/out love.

Admin UD said...

I don't think that life's meaningless without love. There are a hell lot of other factors that make life meaningful that if you lack...you're in super trouble!

miss hotbody said...

Love? Who are you guys kidding?I have passed that stage.

D@AC said...

@miss hotbody.. sad u dont belive in love..
or maybe u do but wld rather it be lust..trust me.. it'll find u in d end.. just hope u recognise it in time..
@ zahratique n kreativemix thanks
@ ugo.. trust me man.. wot onther things r these? of u ave no1 2 share them wot wot wld it do 4 u? not just a gf/bf but a friend.. a padi... u know now