Thursday, January 10, 2008

Boys and girls

Rite.. been meaning to do this but i've been lazy
my friend and fellow blogger finally got me off my lazy but or rather settled me into it so i can finally write this down...
Boys..
this post wont ask wot guys use are, o no ,im sure God made them for a reason, even though no one on earth seem to know what the *bleep* that is ,but as sure as God doesn't make any mistake they have their reason for being.
That granted their attitude and behavior is a another matter to be dealt with..
Guys are always like they are who they are but honestly is it really how you were made or how you were brought up? what you were made to believe by your parent(especially your mum yes you know its the truth if not for her you wouldn't be so pompous and egocentric).
Guys have been brought up to believe they are Gods gift to the world come on really do you still think you are?
Why would you think that? After all thats said and done @ the end of the day you'll run into the arms of a woman either you mum or a gf/wife but still a woman like babies you all are'
invalids.
i read a magazine recently and it claims most of what a guy wants is just to have sex and eat but im of the impression its just a cover up for how attached they can really get...
if its all about sex why dont you all just pay hookers instead of having a gf or wife that you have to spend a lot more money on? Y'all know it'll be a lot cheaper..
And all this sowing of wilds oats drifting from girl to girl whats the point of it? isnt it egotism? a fear of being trapped? And the none cooking bit. Refuse to learn to cook why? cause its a woman job. who the *bleep* said that? Where was it written?
God created us to HELP, that is to assist not take the burnt of everything!
Things are changing really fast guys and if you dont want to become obsolete..
and thats quite possible you know.The bulk of your value is in your sperm and considering each release over a million @ a go and sperm banks are getting more popular and accepted you all better start facing the truth and recognise.
You might call me femnist but i think myself more of a realist and Boy this is the reality of things.
Girls...
I'm sick and tired of all you all felling weak and feeble! For crying out loud y'all are some much better than that... most of us were brought up to think the man is all powerful and mighty but its a 50/50 thing and if you cant see that now im so sorry for you..
Please please please dont make yourself a doormat for some boy just cos he said he loves you.. they say they dont always mean it. Ok fine you love him and he says he loves you but come not dt does not give him the rite 2 treat you like crap! Chic that aint love!
Get off your butt girl and stop waiting for him to buy you this and buy you that... in his mind he'll be think its his right 2 get what he wants and do what he wants with you... dt wot u want honey? really?
And yes you can be by yourself and be happy! true we all need some1 but come on that doesn't mean yoi'll die without some1! thats no reason to go drinking izol or dettol(o yes i know a few who did.. sad innit?) but seriously a lot of us need to build self confidence!
weo so lack it and that what the boys use to play us! if you have a large dozage of self confidence nobody can tell you BS.
conclucion
i still intend to write more on both boys and girls and the male- female interaction.. all i ask of you readers is be real as your leaving a comment. be real, factual and honest...

11 comments:

onydchic said...

What can i say, you said it all. I think the boys and girls of the worl need a new orientation... Cos im sick of this one!

GamineGirlie said...

I just think that everyone should
take their parts as either male or female seriously.

No matter how we want to do it

Guys will always be physically stronger than us
as far as being weaker, thats where it only counts
in almost evry other aspect of life, we are the stronger...

Woman should learn to love themselves first before loving any guy.......thats where the problem usually lies

D@AC said...

Tiona u just about summed it up.
ony we're all sick of it.. if only there can be a balance.. sigh...

D@AC said...

Tiona u just about summed it up.
ony we're all sick of it.. if only there can be a balance.. sigh...

D@AC said...

Tiona u just about summed it up.
ony we're all sick of it.. if only there can be a balance.. sigh...

Admin UD said...

Wow, may i ask what prompted this 'vent'?

Miz Arkitect said...

taken my hat off for you girl. you said it all and thank you soo much for hitting the nail on the head "self confidence!" thats number one reason why a man can take u for granted n for a ride. if he dosent cherish you, someone else wud. we r meant to be cherished. thats one thing i wudnt compromise and also one thing i learnt from my mum and i hold it till date, "what eva a man does that u dont like and you dont stop him, he would keep doing it" u dont wake up one morning after 2 years or more and say you dont want a controlling, aggressive, man. you have made him that way so stop complaining. A man wud only treat u the way u want to be treated if you dont want WALK OUT. i love this post i most say its so both ways we all talk about the guys neglecting the fact that we allow n condo it so thanks for doing both sex justice. we the neck that moves the head around. why we lossing that power?? men can be jerks , HELL yes... that dosent mean we have to take it. lay it down n dont be scared to walk out. a broken relationship is better than a broken arm. (lol i know i took it far)

shhhh said...

well said and quite balanced actually. poignant view of both sexes. each need the other and each is empty without the other. each feels more fulfilled with the other and i guess thats how its meant to be. no one is perfect and till we better ourselves we cant really expect too much, can we?

D@AC said...

@ugo... d vent was prompted by observation.. id just about had it.
@ the paradigm... u dodnt go far jo.. its d truth and we all gotta c it.. d sonner d better.
@ th last king of sctoland(wot a name) and yeah ur rite.. till we better ourselves we cant find our other...

miss hotbody said...

sometimes when i read a blogger writing about gal vs boy issues and she is a gal (i think) , i think either she is not getting tlc or are boy is just not doing it right.

just being cheeky:-)

D@AC said...

lol ms hotbody.. well actually d male female relationship just fascinates me n most of the world isnt it? dts just it..healthy fascination girl but thanks 4 d comment