Friday, January 18, 2008

What a girl wants the basics

Ok since my birth i've been a girl and @ twenty somin(we dont all really need 2 know my age now do we? lol) i think i know what girls want. so 4 all u guys that are clueless open ur eyes and read but dont just read.. try it.. who know ur relationship cld blossom.. if it doest.. i'll be glad if not well...lets just say it wldnt ave worked out anyway...so on to it
what a girls wants...
A girls most utmost desire is to me loved. this is actually the utmost desire of all being.
Loving a girl is not just telling her "I love u" no, cos not, anybody can say dt. If u love her show it dammit!

how u say? simple... take note of wot she loves 2 do, her interests, i need her aspiration e.t.c Let her know ur interested in it cos she is.. it doesnt mean ur whipped tho ur friends will probably tell u so but shld u be listening 2 thos friends i mean they are single arent they?

Secondly just as a man desire respect so does a girl. She aint a maid,just a sex partner, or ur mum...she can be all those things 4 u sure but thats 4 her to choose to. to be frank..if u love her and she knows it she wont hesitate to be all these things actually. cos she knows u love her by ur showing it and she wants to show she loves u back too. No matter wot she is ur equal and shld be treated as such


Thirdly ooo we like gifts. it doesnt ace 2 be expensive just totful trust me if a girl is mor concerend by d cost she's vain and u shld get rid of her(sori girls but i gotta be real)

No 4. Honestly. come on no1 loves to be lied 2 why wld u thikn dt she does? Most guys are of the impression dt girls love being lied 2.. but dont u think ur feeding them they wrong thing just so they cld fall 4 u? And when u break their heart ur all like "well, i had 2 do wot i had 2 do" aint dt a tad selfish?

Fifth: faithfulness... hey dis doesnt mean ur less of a man.. but u know if u truly love a girl u'd be faithful dont give me dt ur a man crap it doesnt fly...we are not saying u cant check out other chics come we check out guys too.. we r humans but u dont see us chasing them around 4 a quicky now do u?
and last but not the least: communicate.. u guys all know dt girls love 2 talk so if u know dis y do u keep compliang? we cant help it.. we are natural sharers. we love to share especially wit out man so if u cant take the sharing better be outta there man cos after we share we expect u 2 do d same 2.. really wot so hard in telling ur girl bout ur day?
This is the bacis of what a girl want s boy trust me if u can get this rite... ur girl will never want to leave unless she doesnt love u and if she doesnt u shld bother wit this cos it just aint gonna work mate sori...lol

6 comments:

miss hotbody said...

sometimes a gal wants something she cant explain. yeah, that too

Afrobabe said...

True...but they never bother to find out

sweetsoul said...

hey babes...
wonder if u remember me.
name is Bola Eniola (den shodiyan)
went 2 airforce wit u 4 a while
howz u?
hola at me if u remember or want 2.
hav a gr8 wk.
much luv n God bless!

SOLOMONSYDELLE said...

For me the number one thing is respect.

Nice blog you have here and a belated welcome to Blogville!

shhhh said...

thanks for the education ma. it was most helpful

Anonymous said...

Hi, I appreciate ur blog but as a 20'sumtin year old as well i can tell you with all assurance and confidence that girls have no idea what they want! We are the most cluless set of people ever.

We want a nice man but not too nice that we can walk over him, we want handsome, be "comfortable'', calm but not too calm. Wen guys tend to be subtle we look at them as less than who they are, but yet when they dominate we shrivel.

The question of what women wants is timeless and i doubt will ever be fully understood because between you and me i dont think we have any freaken idea ourselves